Mom Dad Suitcase Approach (MDSA)
Rafi Khawar
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- *Mom Dad Suitcase Approach*
Psychologist Rafi khawar (Pakistan)
rafi khawar960 @gmail.com
In Addiction , Family of an addict , due to unwanted environment at home , learns and adopt Anti Recovery Communication Patterns (ARCP).anger , disappointments,detachments plays their role to snatch all the soft tones and smiles .They bring their suitcase with them full of these family patterns and handed over to the professional or Self labeled professionals
Untrained and inexperienced Health Care Professionals use this Suitcase ( the traditional family methods to convince or force client to quit drugs).
*1 Requests and extra Pleasing.
pleas do not take drugs , please cut off , you are taking too much.I am your best friend. - This center is not a center for you,its your home..etc
*2 Advice*
You should think about quitting. See your Kids, wife , parents, business , all are at risk due to your addiction. if you you do not stop your self, all will be finished.you have finished already.
*3 Ordering/Directing*
professional tris to bring Recovery with his or her orders.
you will have to sleep at .... PM.
you will get up at ... AM
you will not sit alone at your home. etc
*4.Threats*
it seems you do not go outside .. you want to be here . your behaviour is not good.. You need injection to become Scooter,you will be deprived off visits, canteen etc.. your time will be extended..etc
.*5 Stigmatisation/* *Labeling*
your are sinner , you can not be corrected . you are wrong thinker , time killer and blind to see the realistic world.
*6 Predictions/Assumptions*
you will die soon..
you will see your destruction, your wife will leave you one day.. etc
When client finds similarity between family and professional,s communication patterns ,He or she never accept these things, He or she thinks not under treatment yet . Professional or therapeutic conversation is different .