Family Toxic Care (FTC)
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*Family Toxic Care (FTC)*
by Rafi Khawar highlights the unintended harm that families of addicts can cause due to lack of professional guidance. Here's a breakdown:
*Toxic Care**:
Care that produces negative emotions like anger, disappointment, pity, and insecurity, ultimately limiting the addict's recovery options- *Examples of Toxic Care* -
*1 Nagging* -
Constantly reminding the addict of their addiction, creating guilt and shame.
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*2 Enabling* -
Doing things for the addict that they should do themselves, perpetuating dependence.
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*3 Criticizing*:
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Focusing on the addict's failures, rather than encouraging progress. *
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4 Overprotection*:
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Limiting the addict's autonomy, hindering their ability to take responsibility.
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*5 Emotional Manipulation*:
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Using guilt, anger, or self-pity to control the addict's behavior.
These patterns can stem from a desire to help, but ultimately hinder the recovery process. Family counseling can help families recognize and change these toxic patterns, supporting their loved one's recovery.