Rafi Khawar

Family Toxic Care (FTC)

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  • *Family Toxic Care (FTC)* 
    by Rafi Khawar highlights the unintended harm that families of addicts can cause due to lack of professional guidance. Here's a breakdown:
     *Toxic Care**: 
    Care that produces negative emotions like anger, disappointment, pity, and insecurity, ultimately limiting the addict's recovery options- *Examples of Toxic Care*


  •  *1 Nagging*

  • Constantly reminding the addict of their addiction, creating guilt and shame.


  •  *2 Enabling*

  • Doing things for the addict that they should do themselves, perpetuating dependence.

  • *3 Criticizing*:

  • Focusing on the addict's failures, rather than encouraging progress. *

  • 4 Overprotection*:

  • Limiting the addict's autonomy, hindering their ability to take responsibility.

  • *5 Emotional Manipulation*:

  • Using guilt, anger, or self-pity to control the addict's behavior.

    These patterns can stem from a desire to help, but ultimately hinder the recovery process. Family counseling can help families recognize and change these toxic patterns, supporting their loved one's recovery.